Why the Spiritual Plane Can Make or Break Relationships
April 18th, 2012People are meant to live up to our expectations, they are supposed to do what we want and we’re desperately disappointed if they don’t. We worry about what others think. We try and make something that’s clearly not working, work, or we run away too soon. We react to past hurts and project them onto the world of the present.
The Personality Self Tries to Keep What We Know However Painful
The perspective of our human ‘earthly’ life is about dealing with externals. We rarely concern ourselves in our physical life with the inner thought consciousness of the person, half as much as we do with their external manifestation. Even though it’s our internal perceptions that distinguish the success of a relationship, whether that be a personal one, family and friendships, we rarely even notice. We’re fixated with the external results of what someone will or won’t do to ‘please’ us.
This is the notion of the personality self. It will do whatever it can to keep things the same and within the patterns it already knows. Those patterns are determined by our social or family setting. We as sensitives see them more clearly than most. This is why we become very keen to evolve through repeating behaviours, to a new set beyond.
On the Spiritual Plane We Deal With the Internals
The spiritual plane is a level of consciousness that allows things to be seen from the full perspective. The ‘control desires’ and panic of the personality self is not present when we see ourselves from the spiritual energy perspective. This is because from the spiritual plane we deal with internals. When acting from the personality, we only see the externals. Co-dependency is an external manifestation and projection that doesn’t have its spiritual union with its own consciousness, hence the reason it is co-dependent (external) and not the whole (internal).
When this happens we feed a delusive theory of happiness, based around a one sided affection. The one-sided affection is what we project onto an individual, in the illusion there behaviour changes will MAKE us happy. The truth is it doesn’t last. The happiness doesn’t seem to ‘stay’. Why? It is away from spiritual truth, it is an idea of self-centred aspirations based on an earthly emotion, keeping us endlessly searching for the ‘heavenly’ complete fruition of that emotion.
What will truly make the personality happy is the journey towards the self from the spiritual plane.
It is at the point of the internal world developing from the perspective of the spiritual plane you can see truth. That ‘truth’ is unafraid of emotion, experience, and the true depth of relationships…
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i agree its because we expect others to behave according to our own standards and beleifs and when they do not live up to our expectations we get upset, the simple solution is to accept others as they are and not expect them to be any particular way, and remember only broken hearts and hurt souls try to hurt another. oh i could go on and on sorry.. i love this topic. thank you.
its been fanastic watching your 3 part free video series on starting an holistic business Thank you. your frank approach and honesty were refreshing. great content and advise. thank you. i am looking forward to the webinar.
thank you, Heidi-
what is the time of the webinar if i am in California?
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Hi Yvonne
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Hi Yvonne
When you subscribe, if you opt for the ‘New York/ Toronto’ time option, then when it is 8pm there it will only be 5pm with you, take a look here to see for yourself. Alternatively the London/LA option means when it is 7pm in London it will only be 11am in LA, which you can check here.
Either way, we hope to be able to see you on one of the two options.
Best wishes
Heidi’s Support Team
Dear Heidi,I cant stress enough the power of the words that you have shared.I am on a path that I will not be asked,beged,bullied,pushed nor confused from, or off of!I would not be who i am if not for the gift i was trusted with 30 years ago!It was alot of knowledge for a 10 year old girl to feel,hear and see.I am not 10 today,i am 41!There may not be a stuggle or an abuse of power or kindness out there that i have not known first hand. I am here to say that i am the humble owner of a second gift.A womans understanding of a 10 year old girls knowledge! It has taken three decades!I been guided through those years toward people who needed help,kindness and answers.I have not been shielded from them or there projection of pain or hatred.I always walked away happy that at least they feel better maybe even liking them self! I did my best to recover after each one.I know in my everything today i can keep helping as long as i am allowed so.Understanding this new gift of protection, I now aknowledge.I am threw being hurt through helping others! Understanding all the while,I will never stop helping!!!!!!!!! I dont have to now,I KNOW i have help near me and protection above me. Thanks for being you Heidi! Good job Sister! Thank you above!
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Thank you.
Heidi x
The constant battle with the personality self is what holds us all back. Thank you Heidi x
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Quite agree Sue.
Heidi x
Thank you.
Heidi x
Quite agree Sue.
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Heidi
I could not see the webminar. Is it there a copy you could send me or maybe a link?
Thank you for your help
Irene
Heidi, could you explain your statement in the twitter feed: “wealth, health and happiness all stem from your psyche’s relationship with the pituitary gland”? Relationship in what way? Do you mean it in terms of pituitary being in the third eye area and in terms of manifestation of the external events as reflection of the belief system (6th chakra)? Or not? I’d like to understand this statement better.
Thank you,
Natalya.
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