Your Wealth – The Key to Building Your Confidence
January 6th, 2012Part 3 of 3
(Read Part 1: Health here or Part 2: Relationships here)
Your Wealth – The Key to Building Your Confidence
Wealth is not money; it is a state of mind. That state of mind happens to attract money but it isn’t the physical aspect of coins in your pocket or notes in your purse. Your amount of debt and ability to pay it reflects your current self-esteem and confidence. Unconsciously we make decisions to affirm when we’re ‘worth it’ and when we’re unworthy.
If in the last few years you’ve found yourself making poor choices, then this is the year to change that. It is the most supportive energy in decades.
The support is something you can’t touch, it is something you feel, which exists deep within your core. BUT you have to ignite that feeling. As soon as you do, you’ll find many of your financial challenges will start to correct themselves. I have seen this ‘magic’ work in my psychic readings too many times for it to be incorrect.
If you’ve got debts that are making you anxious or unhappy, make this year your year to correct it. If your thoughts drift towards the fact you’ve already made as many changes as possible, to reduce your outgoings, then consider an adjustment to your sub-conscious world. This could start to make a serious dent in your debts, or generally improve not only your financial wealth, but your spiritual one too.
Making the Most out of the next 12 months
How you can successfully put your goals and targets in place
Once you have decided upon the most important aspect for you to concentrate on for 2012, think about the following:
- What are your daily habits?
- What are the time lines you want to put into place?
- When will things happen?
- What are the strategies and tactics you’re going to use in order to make your plans a reality?
It’s time now to adjust the ‘fast food’ mentality of wanting it yesterday. In order to successfully achieve your plans and goals for 2012, you must first give yourself a bit of time. Think to realistic timelines, of how to get out of the ‘fast’ and into the steady. It’s the little things that start to build your confidence. Give yourself the opportunity along the way to celebrate the little wins, in order to make room for the big one.
The Importance of Your Treats
In order to really get yourself going and to keep yourself motivated, it is important to give yourself some rewards en route. These rewards do not have to be extravagant, and should certainly not be an excuse for poor choices.
When choosing a reward, for a step made or a celebration en route, choose something that’s going to feel special to you. It is important to ‘romance’ yourself, in order to feel worthy of someone else taking the trouble to do that for you in the future. If you’ve made a significant step in the right direction towards your main goal, then reward yourself with a treat, something you wouldn’t normally give yourself.
One I strongly suggest especially for women; instead of rummaging in the reduced bucket of flopping flowers that have seen better days, buy yourself a small bouquet of the flowers you really want. Make the choice based on what you want, rather than what’s the most practical. Put the ones back that are going to last the longest and go for the pretty ones you prefer.
If you have the courage to do this here and there, you are beginning to learn how to accept rather than always over giving. The Universe can then begin to respond appropriately – it can start to ‘give’ in the unexpected with you appreciating, rather than rejecting.
What will make or break
Accountability into action will make or break this year for you. Choose who is going to hold you accountable for your actions. Accountability is a group, person, family member, or mastermind group who will help you stay on track. These are people or a person who has faith in you, who is there to cheer you on and help you get up when you fall over. They are there to do what you need, in order to help you maintain your pace and grow to the level you want to. This person may even be part of your internal world. Accessing this person or group of people, whether internal or actual is the key to your success.
It’s time to get life straightened out, to purge old habits once and for all and to embrace the next 12 months as your YEAR OF GOOD FORTUNE; whether that be your health, relationships or finances.
Copywright Heidi Sawyer 2011
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I love you Heidi. Thank you for all the wonderful advice. It rings so true.