Change your mindset, change your life

Part 2 of 3

(Read Part 1: Health here)

Your Happiness – Creating Successful Relationships

It is my firm belief through years of experience, the key to successful relationships is first a love affair with the self. If you’re cringing at this option then your key goal needs to include relationships.

If you’re single ask in your mind:

• What type of person do you want to meet?
• Someone with self-esteem who looks after their wellbeing?
• A person of integrity who knows what they want from life?
• Someone you can trust and doesn’t play any emotional games?
• A person with confidence?

I have seen over the years during my psychic readings the best relationships emerge out of those who are willing to work on themselves and become the person they want to meet. They then find the right person. If you’re already in a relationship and it’s not working to the level you would like it to, then ask yourself the same questions.

• Is the person you are currently with, the person who reflects the qualities you would like in a person?
• What do you need to change about yourself to reflect the person you want to meet?

If you ask yourself these two questions, often the person you are currently with (if they are right for you / a soul mate) will ‘magically’ transform without any interference or words said.  People, who continue to compromise their integrity, become disillusioned and give up. They say they don’t want a relationship, but scratch the surface, the answer is they do.

Those who develop a love for themselves know within a very short period of time whether a relationship is going to work, or if it is something to let go of. This isn’t a painful option for these people it comes from a deep love for themselves and the wellbeing of others.

If you want a relationship, or better relationships, then become the person you want to meet.

If you struggle with confidence ask in your mind:

• What would make you more confident?
• What changes could you make that would help build your inner world?
• What do you need to build the courage to do?
• What do you want to have done in your life, before the day you leave the physical realm?
• What is your one goal that’s going to help you achieve that?

• Part 3: Your wealth? Jump to wealth section here

Copywright Heidi Sawyer 2011

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